When I think of my Uncle Derek I am not only deeply saddened at his passing but my heart goes out to the English based members of my Whanau (family) who are currently suffering the heart break of his loss at this time. My most recent recollection of my Uncle Derek is from a trip I made to England whilst serving in the New Zealand Army in 2012. I stayed with my Aunty Marion and Uncle Derek in Lichfield, prior to visiting my cousin Roger in Liskeard. Uncle Derek struck me as a very kind and knowledgeable gentleman, I was slightly in awe of him and I was proud to be part of his extended family. He made a point of showing me around the area in particular the Cathedral, the historic old part of the city, the Pub where my Grandfather spent sometime (sadly it was closed) and more importantly the location where my Dads ashes are scattered. The last location was very important to me and has always been a fond memory of that trip and gave me some closure, I am forever in my uncle’s debt for that. He even had a set of the Sean Bean, Sharps series ready for me to watch on video and a selection of beers to have with a pre tour brunch if I wanted to partake. As I reflect at this time I am saddened that Mum and Dads decision to move to NZ meant that I did not get to spend more time with my extended family and have opportunities to learn more from such an awesome gentleman and kind soul as my Uncle Derek. But I also understand that at the time they made the decision with the best of intentions and hey, if they hadn’t, I wouldn’t have the NZ family I now have along with my English family aye. If I can offer anything more at this time, it’s this. Even though at present it’s hard to see away forward out of your current grief I promise you it will in time, become easier to live with and you will be stronger for it. Trust me I still think of my Mum and Dad everyday you never forget the loss of some one you love and someone who has had so much impact on your life. You will always think about them and talk about them when you are together. It is that which keeps them alive in our hearts and ensures their legacy lives on as those of us left continue on with all that they have taught us the good and or the bad. Kia Kaha (Be Strong). Tim Witton

Growing up with Julie since the age of 6 "Uncle" Derek, as he will always be and "Auntie "Marianne always included me as part of the family. Uncle Derek had a wonderful way of building confidence in me to have a go at something new. He taught me to swim which I wouldn't have achieved when I did without him. He always gave support and an encouraging word when I was struggling and times were tough and never failed to make me smile and laugh. He had a wonderful sense of humour and was incredibly loyal and caring to us all. I feel honoured to have had him and Auntie Marianne in my life. Uncle Derek will be sadly missed by so many. Rest in peace. Lots of love Sonia. X

When I first met Derek & Marian properly I was 7 months pregnant and moving in with them, not quite what they'd expected! But what a welcome & what a start to such a close relationship, I am so grateful for that first year when James arrived & we were part of the Griffiths household. I was spoiled rotten, waited on as an expectant & then actual mum, given so much consideration and attention that I couldn't help but love this dear couple. The on demand babysitting was pretty great too! We had so many laughs & really enjoyed spending time together, paving the way for a very happy 'daughter in law' relationship, a rich blessing indeed. Derek was always laughing, enjoying our lads, playing at any games they asked and always keen to patiently share his expertise. I've put some photos on this tribute picture pages showing fun Grandad Derek! We enjoyed so many family holidays together at Lydstep, Pembroke, Cornwall and of course the big trip to New Zealand (after a stop at LA for Disney) that was generously paid for by Marian & Derek. Five weeks with the family flew by with never a cross word between any of us, that's how much fun it was being together. To me Derek was an extra 'dad', I loved & appreciated him for the caring, generous, family man he was and for always being quick with his wicked sense of humour. I am so grateful for a share of him throughout the years and Roger & I are especially thankful for the last week we had together with him & Marian just before he passed. We talked, teased, laughed & cried, such a blessing. A truly lovely man who we will all miss but are so much the richer for knowing. Rest in peace dear Derek, thank you for being a fantastic Father in law, love Amanda ❤